President of Cassero LGBTI+ Center
ALWAYS QUEER. NEVER FACIST.
My work as an activist started when I was living in a small town in the South of Italy and I was convinced my girlfriend and I were the only lesbians around. One day, a friend of mine and his boyfriend were kicked out of a local park because they were kissing and a few children were playing nearby. Considering the homophobia pervading the environment I had grown up in, this incident didn’t come as a surprise. However, it provoked outrage in the local community, leading to meetings and sit-ins and, most importantly, to the first (and only) Pride march in the city in 2015.
We couldn’t know back then, but 2016 had something important in store for us: the Parliament passed a bill recognizing civil partnerships, an event that still counts as one of the major legislative achievements of the Italian LGBTQIA+ movement. Since then, we have tried to add a law against discrimination, marriage equality, and de-pathologizing transgender identities to the national political agenda, to no avail.
Unfortunately, over the past year since the election of Giorgia Meloni as Prime Minister, the hatred towards LGBTI+ people has increased, exacerbated by the words of Italian institutions against non-heterosexual families and the role of LGBTI+ people and gender discussions at school. The country is going through a challenging social and economic crisis, which the government has decided to face by pushing minorities aside from the white, heterosexual, and heteronormative national identity. Bologna saw an increase in the number of assaults in the public space, which local institutions found concerning.
The new Italian government has proven even worse than expected: in a year, they almost made surrogacy illegal, even though it was a way for same sex couples to have children. In the meantime, they worked locally to deprive lesbian mothers of any parental rights towards their children. There isn’t much we can do to stop this government, with its solid majority and targeted strategy. What we can do, though, is keep on fighting to make our battles and identities visible in as many fields as possible, with the aim of changing perceptions and building alliances.
What I would like people to understand is that this affects every single one of us. It might appear people already know this, considering the level of animosity triggered by the debates on themes such as inclusive language, consent, sexual violence, non-heterosexual parenthood, family models, and the role of politics in protecting citizens from discrimination. I see heated discussions about these topics, but I don’t think people are aware of why that happens – and that’s because these debates are about all of us. Trans issues are about everybody’s identity, not just a tiny percentage of people in Italy.
Together with the association I lead, we will continue to reclaim all the spaces we live in, claiming that we’re proudly queer and anti-fascist.